He was one week late and my wife was growing understandably anxious (and bigger). Luckily there was an end in sight with an inducement already scheduled. But as usual, nature took its own course, appropriately at 4am, during one of the numerous nightly trips to the bathroom; water gushed out and he was finally on his way to meet us.
Since situation didn’t look too intense, I tried “Honey, can I go back to sleep?” The answer was unmistakable “No”. I got up, made up the bed and took a quick shower. At least we had slept for most of the night.
After calling in a friend to look after our older boys, we were on our way to the hospital through quiet suburban roads in sleeping Oregon. Suddenly my wife, in the middle of her contractions, said “nurses and doctors need doughnuts.” I was like, “huh, really?” As you may well know, there is usually no way to reason with a pregnant woman, let alone with one who is in labor. So, there we were standing inside a doughnut shop at 5am ordering a fresh baker’s dozen. (This particular local shop didn’t have a drive-through.) Lady behind the counter was wondering if my wife was OK in the middle of one of her contractions. “I am haviNG A BABY!” told the lady what was happening. She probably thought that we were insane. I paid for the doughnuts and thanked the lady.
We left the shop with a fine collection of freshly baked doughnuts. Contraction. When we arrived at the hospital about 10 minutes later we were put into a delivery room and started to settle in. Contraction.
My wife got into the hospital clothes. Contraction. I put our hospital bag aside. CONTRACTION. We chatted with the nurse who checked out the progress, 5cm. CONTRACTION. Last trip to the bathroom. CONTRACTION. “CAN I GET AN EPIDURAL?” Not me, but my wife. CONTRACTION.
I tried to make my wife feel comfortable by walking her around the room, and trying to be attentive. CONTRACTION. She was doing great. CONTRACTION. Anesthesiologist arrived and prepared her quickly for the epidural. CONTRACTION. Epidural was started and soon I heard “Aahhh” and saw a smile.
Room became pretty peaceful and quiet. We talked a little, my wife rested and I called both sets of grandparents telling them that we will be having the baby soon. Contraction. Thanks to the Skype for free international calling!
The doctor and the midwife came to setup the room. Contraction. They brought in an impressive amount of various instruments and tools normally used in the hospitalized child birth. Doctor checked on the progress, 10cm. My wife had progressed from 5 to 10cm in about an hour without much pain. She was doing super well. It was time to push!
Hospital bed was quickly converted into a delivery bed. Bottom half disappeared somewhere when I didn’t pay attention and was replaced by a couple of leg rests. A huge bag hung from the end of the bed ready to collect body fluids and other byproducts of a child birth. Everything was ready!
I am holding one of the legs and providing any little support a husband can. Contraction. PUSH! Head is showing up and the doctor is feeling it. Head seems to be soft like a sponge. He has hair, maybe even more than I do! Rest and breath. Contraction. PUSH! Swoosh! Our son slides out with good speed into doctor’s hands. He is wrapped up, his nose and mouth are sucked clean and umbilical cord is clipped. I am given a pair of big scissors and as a dad, I cut the cord. Doctor hands me the baby and I carry him to my wife for her to see and feel.
That was easy! (If a male ever can say that.) Our third son was born! I am now daddying for three.